Strengths

You have great emotional control, and this allows you to pace yourself in ways average people cannot. You can keep control when others lose it. This suggests the capacity for sustained effort on your part which may manifest in a natural athletic ability. Your relationships, which tend to be long lasting, are easy going. There is an accent on leadership and masculinity.

 You have a sense of the extraordinary and wonderful about you. People sense that you have an insight into the larger picture, and you can communicate this idea of unity to a group. You are great at working with images, whether psychological, artistic, or cinematic. You probably love movies and music, anything with a grand theme or gesture. You are not just another dreamer. You can put your imagination to work. Your partner may have to work overtime to live up to your ideal of him/her, and to keep you down to earth and away from woolgathering. You need someone who loves to explore the dreamy psychological underside of life. You see beneath the surface of things.

You communicate very well, and it is easy for you to give others a feeling for whatever you're thinking. You tend to believe that there is almost no problem that cannot be handled with words, by talking it out. You could be a fine speaker. Your natural sensitivity for the feelings and thoughts of those around you makes you a valued community member. Needless to say, you want a partner who is at home with feelings and -- above all -- likes to talk.

You were born lucky and have never had trouble finding support and approval from others. You may find that working with people is what you want to do for a career. Whether professionally or not, you will find yourself guiding and directing other people in one way or another. You have a way with other people and could do well in advertising, sales... any occupation that works with the public. If anything, you might have had it a little too easy, been a little too lucky.

You are a great problem-solver, and can always think of a way to do almost anything. Your friends know you to be fair, and your integrity is unquestionable. You may find yourself interested in legal matters, publishing, philosophical and religious subjects, and would make a good teacher or instructor. Scientific investigation would interest you.

 You value independence in others, especially a lover. They must have some unique quality for you to take an interest. Your taste in friends runs to the unconventional. You appreciate variety in all things and are delighted when a partner comes up with a new and different way to get your attention. You don't like to be tied down. You probably have a penchant for inventions, electronics, and new-age technology.

Challenges

 You have mixed feelings when it comes to other people. You can't live with them and you can't live without them. You are used to a high degree of emotional tension. People may misinterpret your emotional charged ness as aggression or disapproval, when in fact that's just the way you are. They may not support your values. You long for a smooth relationship, but if you look at your history it's been a rocky road indeed. You may have trouble locating an environment where you feel comfortable and can flourish.

The last of the big spenders! You are by no means conservative, and overindulgence of all kinds is sort of second nature. You tend to ignore the realities of life in favor of the perks. This may bring you hard up against natural or human law, again and again. No one can accuse you of lacking ambition. The straight and narrow is unappealing to you. You would rather range along the fringe. A nonconformist.

Part 2. How you relate to THOMAS CRUISE MAPOTHER IV

Strengths

 You have always known that he loves you, and you can't help but find this charming. You have a sense of being valued and appreciated for the right reasons. This is a warm and affectionate relationship.

 You both have an understanding that he is a little different and likes his independence. This is not a problem. He brings some excitement and adventure to your life, and may be restless and on the go. He may introduce you to unusual friends and situations.

 You are wholeheartedly supportive of THOMAS CRUISE MAPOTHER IV's values and ideals. You are his best fan. He is always appreciative of your feelings and moods, with the result that you feel very much valued. This is a very nice arrangement.

 THOMAS CRUISE MAPOTHER IV likes talking and communicating with you. You have a knack for bringing out the best in him, making it easy for him to say what's on his mind. He feels your genuine support and enjoys what he finds himself saying and thinking in your presence. He knows that he can speak his mind when he is with you.

 You just love THOMAS CRUISE MAPOTHER IV, perhaps from the very start, and he knows it. You value him just as he is. He dotes on being the object of your affections. This is a very nice combination.

 Aside from any romance, this could result in a sound business relationship. You value THOMAS CRUISE MAPOTHER IV's judgment and, more often than not, tend to let him act as your guide in matters of career and direction. He knows you appreciate his abilities, and this combination should be an enduring one.

 You value his dreams and idealistic nature. There is an almost otherworldly sense that develops when the two of you get intimate -- your own magic bubble. He enchants you. Movies, music, and moods are something you can enjoy together.

THOMAS CRUISE MAPOTHER IV always seems to come up with a new feeling for life when you get behind him. You seem to push him to break through the humdrum and have new experiences. You understand how to move him to get out of himself and experience new things.

 This could be a very passionate and intense relationship. You find that you are always pushing him to face himself, putting him through changes. He probably finds this exciting. There is a strong sexual attraction to all of this. This could be a good business combination, if caution is exercised.

Challenges

 He may not always think highly of you and is not afraid to let you know when this is the case. You may sometimes tend to discount what he says and squelch communication. You don't always like what he thinks.

 You may find him somewhat repressive of your feelings. He manages to put a damper on you every time you get to feeling good and comfortable. There is no way you will support this side of him, and this could lead to a real standoff.

 You won't support what you feel are unrealistic notions and fantasies on his part. His escapism does nothing for you. You feel he should learn to be more down to earth and practical. There can be much disappointment, and possibly deception, with this combination.

 There may be some problems due to a lack of communication. There is an unwillingness on your part to discuss THOMAS CRUISE MAPOTHER IV's changes (what he is going through). You may prefer not to not comment on sensitive issues, instead of the constant rehash. The resulting confrontations may be hectic and intense.
 

 This may never do. Neither of you are able or willing to give the other much credit. There is a lack of appreciation, and very little sense of shared values. You may not like the same things.

 He may have a tendency to throw cold water on your enthusiasms and hurt your feelings. You may not take his problems seriously enough to suit him, and he may tend to restrict your natural sense of love and appreciation. There is cold-war tension to this relationship.

 The two of you may tend to get very emotional, and you could clash over many issues. He may feel that he doesn't get enough support from you, and that you are pushy and aggressive. You may not feel like pouring a lot of energy into his needs and demands.